At The Curiosity Shoppe, we have two brothers that come to our After School program, the older boy 9 years old and the younger boy 7. They have been coming to the center since they were very young. Only a few years ago, they were on a family cruise with their parents and witnessed their father commit suicide by jumping from the deck they were all watching from. Both of them still struggle deeply with their emotions and behavior. One multiple occasions, typically around the holidays and Father’s Day, they still mention to the other kids that their father will be waiting for them when they get home. In the years that they’ve been with us, they continue to show progress every day. Their mother was absolutely devastated that her husband would choose to end his life in the eyes of their sons, but she confided to us all she had left and it’s been our pleasure to work with these boys and be an aide to her while she works to support the family.
Their story truly tugs on my heart strings every time I see them show improvements and I can’t help but feel honored to have been gifted the opportunity to take part in their healing.
Oh Caitlin what a story! But how nice that the boys have you to comfort them and help them through such a devastating time in their lives!
ReplyDeleteKuddos to you as it is so important that these young boys have a strong support system. Unfortunately, my daughter's father chose to end his own life and I know all too well the devastating effects that suicicde can have on a young child. It took my breath away when I read that the little ones had actually witnessed the event. My heart goes out to them and I commend you for helping them through the healing process.
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ReplyDeleteEnjoyed your Bio! You are preparing for a wonderful professional career. Early Childhood Education is challenging but so very rewarding. Having a preschool in the family provides you with a unique opportunity. Make the most of it and enjoy the process!